Monday, January 2, 2012

The Gentleness Challenge

Join Courtney and the rest of us over at 
Women Living Well for The Gentleness Challenge for mom's.  I know this challenge is for me as I am not naturally a gentle person.  Yet....I want to be!  Isn't that half the battle?  Let me just say if you know you should, yet don't have the desire, pray for God to give you the desire.  Can you tell I've been there?  I have often snapped at my children or yelled in exhaustion or frustration only to feel bad about it moments later.  Can you relate?  Come on over and join us all as we strive together and sharpen one another toward godliness.

In relation to all of this, I have realized *again* that  I didn't see a lot of my reactions, trying to figure the ends out, changing course of plans etc,...for what it really was. Yesterday I heard a sound bite on the radio that made me again realize that I allow fear to torment me, yet I don't see it that way at the time. Logic and clever sounding excuses allow me to get around that which I am afraid of and I don't even realize that is root of these issues at the time.  That's a scary thought.  It's also something that could very well, and in fact does lead to lack of patience or anxiety which makes being a gentle mother a hard thing to grasp practically. 

Faith and perfect love cannot co-exist with fear.  I know this logically when I take the time to reflect on the issues.  *(note to self:  take the time to reflect!!!)  I am so done with living in fear. It is a torment, and doesn't change a thing for the better. Maybe for the worse, yes!!! God did not intend that for me, he gave me His son! His SON!!!!! Why would he withhold a lesser need from us when He has given us the most precious already? If He wants our kids for example to have something (such as musical training or other extra curricular things------one of the issues that had been nagging my mind BTW) then He will provide it. We can't lean on our own understanding. Perhaps it's not as important as it seems to me.  Perhaps there is a more important issue that needs to be worked on first before adding an activity that would allow less reflection time. We have to trust in Him, anything less is a big slap to the face with all He has done for us already. Scary thought! I am going to be more of an intentional
mother this year, it's so important.  I am going to try and look at the day at hand and stop worrying over the next.

Sunday, January 1, 2012

Beatitudes For Homemakers


*Blessed is she whose daily tasks are a work of love; for her willing hands
  and happy heart transform duty into joyous service to all her family and God.
*Blessed is she who opens the door to welcome both stranger and well-loved friends;
  for gracious hospitality is a test of brotherly love.
*Blessed is she who mends both stockings and broken toys and broken hearts;
  for her understanding is a balm to her husband and children.
*Blessed is she who scours and scrubs; for well she knows that cleanliness is one expression of godliness.
*Blessed is she whom children love; for the love of a child is of greater value than fortune or fame.
*Blessed is she who sings in her work; for music lightens the heaviest load and brightens the dullest chore.
*Blessed is she who dusts away doubt and fear and sweeps all the cobwebs of confusion;
  for her faith will triumph over all adversity.
*Blessed is she who serves laughter and smiles with every meal;
  for her cheerfulness is an aid to mental and physical digestion.
*Blessed is she who introduces Jesus Christ to her children;
  for Godly sons and daughters shall be her reward.
*Blessed is she who preserves the sacredness of the Christian home;
  for hers is a divine trust that crowns her with dignity.

By Ella May Miller

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Summer Re-cap

Hello out there.  Just pushing away the cobwebs up here to take a peek into blogland.  I am thinking this blog may be ready to be laid to rest.  Periodically I end a blog, publish it in book form and begin anew.  We shall see. 

This summer we had a lovely 3 day visit from my brother, who now lives in Florida, and whom we haven't seen in 3 years, along with my nephew Bryce.  I am somewhat mellow of a person, but with a quick tongue..LOL  You get my brother in the mix and you have a full side show going. 
The confusion as our visitors get attacked by bright flashes...LOL
(mom, daughter and her boyfriend)

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My brother and I
It was fun, we were crazy and loud and played games.  My mom and eldest daughter were also up so it was the whole gang at our place!  Boy was I hopping in the kitchen with the 12 of us.  My little nephew is such a sweetie pie, it was great to see him after so long. 
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My brother and nephew :)
After 4 days my mom and daughter went home (a day after my brother and nephew),
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bye-bye ALREADY?!
and came a couple weeks later, to stay for 2 weeks.  We didn't do a ton as my mom has a hard time getting around.  She has a wheel chair at home in MA but no way to get it in and out of the car yet....heavy stuff!  So we stayed home and just hung out for that time.  Monopoly Deal was the game of the hour!! 

Mom and my brother

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Cookout as much as possible....LOL
The boys and Felicia enjoyed swimming lessons 4 days per week for our short swimming season, and learned some new skills. We have a BEAUTIFUL town pool, complete with twirly water slide which they all love.  I was turned off to the "public" pool idea until I actually saw it, and very happy to learn that a family season pass included lessons for all of our children, such a good deal.  Yes, our taxes are high in Western NY, but at least we are benefitting by it with these facilities and others like it available at low cost!  I will feel so much better when they are all strong swimmers as we are SURROUNDED by bodies of water and there is so much that can be done recreationally in them.  From canoeing down the HUGE creek, or kayaking in the lake, wind surfing, sailing, fishing...you name it, we've got it!  It will be nice for those doors to open for my children when they are older. 

our town's public pool

We have also had the priviledge of visiting the Buffalo Zoo a couple of times this Summer.  It was so fun to see a different zoo for a change, and especially the polar bears, rainforest area and gorilla family which our prior zoo never had.  Here are a few memories of those visits:




While my mom and daughter was here, Mike and I celebrated our 13th wedding anniversary.  We decided to go sailing on The Spirit of Buffalo and really beautiful schooner with RED SAILS!!!  It was so luxurious, and our first time sailing.  I made sure to load up on dramamine and away we went.  It was a nice experience, and also sweet for the two of us to be able to take a few hours away and just relax.  We never get to do that, but since their visit coincided with our special day, it worked out just right.  Thanks mom!!!
Mike asked someone on board to take our photo and I love it!  Great idea honey!!!


Check out the rain shower we got to see across the way (below):

Mike's brother Dave also came over from California to pay us a vist before heading down through MA and off for a tour of Europe, where he still is currently.  We went to show him Niagara Falls for a couple of hours after our cookout lunch before his leaving.  We hadn't seen him in several years. 
 




In our Summer bag-o-tricks we also enjoyed a few picnics,
Fort Niagara where we picnicked

Setting things up


and outings at a friend's waterfront property on the Niagara River, where we spent the Fourth of July very happily getting to know a new couple.


I have recomitted to low-carb just yesterday.  I have gained 10 lbs since April.  The reality is that I COULD have lost up to 50 lbs if I had been following the plan.  However, flip side is that I did not gain the 50 that I had lost last year back, only 10.....so that is better than I've done in times past.  I've just got to really get on the ball now and take this seriously once again so that I am able to get where I really want to be!  Yesterday I made a master list of meal ideas that I have made in the past that are low-carb.  It will be a running list as I get a new idea, or try a new hit recipe.  This way I will get myself out of the rut I've been in regarding meal-planning and cooking, and therefore eating.  :) 

We also have begun visiting a new church.  We left the one we were visiting since moving here for several good reasons.  This new church is huge, and normally I shy away from huge churches.  However, after visiting for 2 months now, the messages are actually good, so it may be a good thing afterall.  Soon the women's and other groups will be starting up so I hope to meet some new friends! 

Not a whole lot is new other than that, and looking forward to fall, and pumpkin spice coffees (recreating them at home, thank you Dunkin Donuts for the inspiration).  Apple picking and acorns, pinecones and apple picking.  Time to update the mantle with berries and vines and all that fun stuff.  I will think on what to do with this blog.  I don't have a computer at home anymore, just my phone, or computer access from the library. 

Until we meet again,

Jenn





Monday, May 9, 2011

My Cousin's Wedding

Boy did we have a great time at my cousin Ronnie and Jessie's wedding!!  On May 6th our family of 7 and two dogs headed down from WNY to Massachusetts to begin the festivities.  We reserved two hotel rooms and had the night to relax and the next day to prepare before the big celebration. 

On Saturday, May 7th we headed over to St Patrick's church in South Hadley Falls at the appropriate time.  Unfortunately, I was having flash woes so most of the indoor church photos aren't that great.  Here is one of the newly united couple!



The reception was following the ceremony at the beautiful Delaney House in Holyoke.  It was an extravagant place to celebrate a marriage, we loved every moment of it.  Here is a shot of our table:

What a simple yet elegant cake!

My honey and I

Me with all my children but one

Autumn and youngest brother, Aiden tore up the dance floor all night!!

The elated couple ;0)
This pretty much sums it up....boy were we exhausted!

Sunday, April 24, 2011

~Happy Easter--He is Risen!!!~

This morning we attended the 9am service at church rather than our usual 11am time.  We were quite surprised that it wasn't crowded at all like we expected.  The choir did a lovely job.  I think I will join them for the next event.  I couldn't for Easter because I couldn't make two of the three rehearsals due to being out of town. 

We gave the children their gift baskets when we came home from church.  Then I began making our large dinner.  Ham, au gratin potatoes, corn, flaky biscuits, salad, coconut cake, cupcakes, soda, coffee.  YUM...what a feast for the 7 of us.   I think my body is in shock from the sugar we consumed, especially after being on a low carb diet for 2 months!!! 

Here are some pictures from our day:

Easter "eve"

at home right after church


getting shoes on for church

the boys before church


mama's tall coconut cake

it barely fits the cake stand!


bountiful feast for 7






mom and son before church